The theme of forgiveness has always been controversial for some people (I would say rather to almost everyone). I want to make a kind of effective reflection on this matter. Always we have been told over and over again, that we must forgive, we must forget and forgive; (is not that I think that this is wrong), but if we take into account only this aspect, will fall into the conclusion, that always we will always be the offended or mistreated and when are we that stumble?. In addition the offense, (for the person who is supposedly offending us), can be relative and for us as well. So the thing is understood best us to a concrete example, which maybe can be a common case: A coworker says to our supervisor, that I’m late to the Labor Center, because I am very weak and I stay asleep in my view, is doing me harm, because I can dismiss the work, but at the same time for him can be who believes that is what has done well, because they think that it does for my sake. The relativity of the matter may end, namely distinguish absolute values. Make a comment of someone without being, present, here and in China is bad, (except for error or omission) nobody (I think) in their right mind would do things that would harm to another.

Attitudes will always be justified by the person making them; revenge for example. The person who takes revenge, thinks that doing so it is returning the evil that could have done you, then by logic, this fact, is justified. If it’s examples, when we entered the field staff, things can be understood better; rather, events us when passed to us. We (my wife and I) had a small business in the door of the House that we habitabamos (chassis sanguchero), which in turn was an old, big house which belonged to all the brothers of my lady by inheritance.